Nevertheless, this dynamic serves the divorce allegory. The gerush exorcism requires the entire family to be present and to confess their sins against one another. In a key scene, Tzadok forces Clyde to admit that he was unfaithful (the implied cause of the divorce) while the dybbuk speaks through Emily. The exorcism succeeds not through holy water or crucifixes but through the restoration of familial unity and truth-telling. The dybbuk is expelled only when the parents stop fighting and hold Emily together—a literal act of shared custody. The horror concludes when the family, broken but reunited, watches the box burn. The message is clear: the demon of divorce cannot be fought individually; it requires communal ritual and accountability.
The film’s greatest weakness is its resolution. After the exorcism, the family simply reunites; there is no exploration of the underlying marital issues. The dybbuk is destroyed, but the conditions that attracted it (dishonesty, anger, fractured communication) remain unaddressed. This optimistic ending conflicts with the film’s otherwise grim realism, suggesting that the supernatural threat was always a more comfortable enemy than marital therapy. The Possession -2012-2012
The film subverts gender expectations of possession. Emily’s possession is not sexualized (as in Regan MacNeil in The Exorcist ) but behavioral: she becomes aggressive, secretive, and hostile—stereotypical “adolescent” behaviors that the parents interpret as acting out due to the divorce. This misdiagnosis is the film’s tragedy. The school counselor and the stepmother assume psychological trauma; only the Hasidic exorcist, Tzadok (Tom Atkins in a career-defining role), recognizes the supernatural. Tzadok explains that the dybbuk “is not a demon; it’s a ghost with a grudge.” This line explicitly aligns the entity with emotional baggage: the dybbuk is a grudge that has forgotten its original cause but remembers its right to be angry. Nevertheless, this dynamic serves the divorce allegory
The central artifact—the dybbuk box (based on the real “Dibbuk Box” sold on eBay in 2003)—serves as a powerful material metaphor. In the film, Clyde and Stephanie have divided their household: Clyde keeps a new apartment; Stephanie retains the family home. The box is discovered at a yard sale, a liminal space of discarded possessions and broken transactions. Emily, the middle child caught in the custody crossfire, is drawn to the box because it promises secrecy and containment—qualities her life lacks. The exorcism succeeds not through holy water or
The Dybbuk of Suburbia: Trauma, Divorce, and the Commodification of Folklore in Ole Bornedal’s The Possession (2012)
