The crush faded, as crushes do. By seventeen, I was annoyed by his dad jokes. By eighteen, I was embarrassed by his old sneakers. By twenty, I was gone to college, calling home once a week, keeping him on speaker while I scrolled my phone.
Not a metaphorical hammer of realization, but an actual, honest-to-god, rubber-grip Stanley hammer. I was fifteen, helping my dad build a birdhouse—a lopsided, condemned-looking thing that no self-respecting sparrow would ever nest in. He handed me the hammer, wrapped my fingers around the rubber grip, and then placed his hand over mine to guide the first swing.
It started, as these things often do, with a hammer. 315. Dad Crush
I kissed his forehead. He stirred, mumbled, “Love you, kid.”
But last Christmas, I came home late. He was asleep on the couch, the TV murmuring an old Western, his reading glasses still on his face. I pulled the blanket up to his chin, and for a second, I just looked at him. The crush faded, as crushes do
Later, we floated in the middle of the water, treading gently. He told me about the first time he held me—how I fit in the palm of his hand like a little burrito, how he was terrified he’d drop me. I laughed and splashed him. He splashed back.
He had softer hands now. More gray. Slower to get up from the floor after playing with the dog. By twenty, I was gone to college, calling
And I crushed, just a little, all over again.